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In life, there are many compromises. However, when it comes to choosing the man/woman for the rest of your life, there is no such thing as compromise. How do you know who is best for you? From experiences, people need to work on themselves, love themselves and believe in themselves in order to find the best match. If you know how to treat yourself right, there is a small chance that you will find someone to make you less happy in life. It can be lonely sometimes when you are single, but it’s not a bad thing. You are simply working on yourself while you are waiting for the right one to come along. There is a man/woman will double your happiness, but you need to know how to be happy by yourself! If you don’t even know what makes you happy, how would anyone else know, right? Don’t be fooled by the feeling of loneliness because you know you are way better than that! 

I always believe that the world can be so much fun and convenient is because of those who are dare to dream. We need a vision before we can create something new. I’m sure millions ago, people will never thought about we can “fly” or “talk overseas.” Because of those dreams that were once being seen as crazy, we see the dreams became reality. Don’t be afraid to dream and follow your heart. Dare to create your own wonderland. You are the master of your life and you are the creator of your own happiness! 

What makes life interesting is the up and down moments that you experienced and conquered. Your mind is the most powerful thing in the universe. If you can control your emotions via your mind, congratulations!! I believe you can be part of the Avengers! Now, how do we do that? I have been practicing it for years now and yet still not close to perfect. However, what I have noticed is that my life starts to change when my mind changes. Many people will create thoughts and make assumptions when they face something uncertain in life, either in a relationship or work. I have to say, this is really sometimes unnecessary. When you have a negative attitude towards something, things will most likely to turn out negative. For example, you keep thinking that your boyfriend will eventually leave you and you become moody, dull faced, sensitive and emotional. Trust me, he will leave you! I am not being mean for no reason, but please think about it for a second here. Would you stay with someone who is moody and sensitive with every word that you said? Would you stay with someone who makes you upset even when you did nothing wrong? Would you stay with someone who constantly being suspicious with anything and everything, which almost make you feel like he is just want to pick a fight with you? When the conversation replaced by fights and arguments, how many of you are willing to stay and be able to smile? I always believe that I have to work on myself first before I judge others. I am not a saint and certainly not a psychic. People can have millions of excuses saying that I was born this way (not everyone can be lady gaga, right?!) I can’t change, I can’t blah blah blah. What I see is that you are just not WILLING to change. The temptation isn’t strong enough and you probably don’t see the value of change. I understand people can be afraid of changing, but it doesn’t mean that you are not you anymore. Instead, you become a better you. My dear fellow readers, give yourself a break. Sometimes we are the one who is cruelly mentally torturing ourselves! Not your boyfriend, not your parents, not your friends, not the government and certainly not god! Open your eyes from your heart, even the nature knows to put a rainbow after that thunder. You can cry all you want, but at the end of the day, please do remember to put a rainbow on your face and believe that you can conquer all the obstacles in life. We only live once and not eternity. Do you want to fill your life with sorrow or happiness is completely up to you. Everyone knows and wants to live life the fullest, but how many can really execute it? Loving someone is not restriction but a mutual commitment between the two. Trust him/her just to make your life easier. If you do find out that person you care about did something unacceptable, you can tell yourself that at least you have done your part right! Trust me! With the right attitude, better things will always come along ;)